Certainly a lot to consider about tennis matches that may have altered the course of history of the game. You can only really tell after many years. There have been so many matches that have catapulted players into the next level. But there have been very few matches between the #1 and #2 that have truly had a major, history-altering impact.
I can't really comment on any matches prior to the Open era, although the Wembley final in 1964 between Laver and Rosewall was basically an exhibition match. Doesnt mean it wasn't important to either man, but had no real bearings on their overall careers. Laver wa 2 years remove from the amateur era; Rosewall even longer removed. And open tennis was 4 years away.
I definitely agree Borg-Connors in Wimbledon 1977 was decisive moment, as it was the first time Borg beat Connors in a really big match, and it came down to the wire.
Navratilova-Evert in 1982 Wimbledon was a match where Navratilova was already #1 (and would have remained #1 no matter who won). Martina had won 2 majors in a row and had basically already eclipsed Evert. It was still an important win. I think Navratilova's 1978 Wimbledon win was a match that may have altered history more. Evert was #1 at the time, Martina hadn't won a major yet, and had Evert won that year, it may have taken Martina that much longer to realize her potential.
The Graf over Navratilova 1988 Wimbledon win was another occasion where the #1 ranking was not in the balance. Again an important win for Graf, dethroning Navratilova. But Steffi had alrady surpassed Martina by that point. It was more a matter of confirmation than changing history.
I also agree with oberyn's post that the 1995 US Open final between Agassi and Sampras was a pivotal moment. First, had Agassi wn it he wuld have clearly surpassed Pete for #1 for the year. It may have also put Andre on equal footing with Pete for their careers (it would have been Andre's 4th major to 6 for Pete at the time). Pete zoomed past Andre as a result of that match.
Likewise, you wonder how Agassi would have fared had he lost the 1999 French final.
Lendl's win over McEnroe in the 1985 US Open signalled a changing of the guard. It was the first US Open win for LEndl, and last major final appearance for McEnroe. Lendl's 1984 French win was almost as important, since it was hist first major win.